Thursday, February 26, 2009
When do we go?
I've had this question asked a thousand times this week and thankfully, Tami at Dillon sent me this website which clearly lists the steps under the new 800A/800 process. We are on Step 3 of 7 which is a lot better to say rather than shrugging my shoulders and saying "I don't know"!
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Hooray!
We got news today that we have received NOC (No objection Certificate)! We are under the new 800A/800 process so things are different from other Dillon families. Basically, our file has to be put on the shelf and not be sent to the Kolkata courts until after our 800 form has been received and processed. We can not have guardianship until that is all approved.
It's kind of frustrating that our case has to be held and not submitted to the courts when we know from other families' experiences that that part of the process can be quite lengthy and unpredictable but we trust God's timing in all things!
It's kind of frustrating that our case has to be held and not submitted to the courts when we know from other families' experiences that that part of the process can be quite lengthy and unpredictable but we trust God's timing in all things!
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Friday, February 13, 2009
You've Got Mail
Many of you Dillon adoptive families out there understand what I mean when I say my heart skips when I open my email and see one from Tami, our director. It happened again today and although it was not the news that we had received NOC, there was a sweet new picture of our little guy. Totally unexpected but such a blessing, especially to see him sitting up somewhat!
We have been waiting on NOC for 6 weeks now and it has been 14 weeks since we first got the call. We were studying Mary this week in Bible study and the biggest thing I learned from her was her willingness to serve the Lord no matter the consequence. She made a choice to obey Him and a choice about her attitude in the process. Following her example, I am willing to wait on God, trust His plan to grow our family through adoption no matter how long it takes or what trials we endure to make it happen. He will provide, He will answer, He is good.
We have been waiting on NOC for 6 weeks now and it has been 14 weeks since we first got the call. We were studying Mary this week in Bible study and the biggest thing I learned from her was her willingness to serve the Lord no matter the consequence. She made a choice to obey Him and a choice about her attitude in the process. Following her example, I am willing to wait on God, trust His plan to grow our family through adoption no matter how long it takes or what trials we endure to make it happen. He will provide, He will answer, He is good.
Thursday, February 5, 2009
Thankful
Wow, what a week. It's been hard around here as I've been battling my selfishness in every area of my life. We've had some big disappointments and sad news and cancelled vacations.
This morning I dropped Lucy off at school and was in the parking lot ready to go to MOPS with Nate when he threw up all over himself before we even got out of the car. So I put the car in reverse and home we are. The car seat cover, jacket, clothes are in the washing machine, Barney is on the television, Nate is snuggled on the couch with water (he will not be having watermelon yogurt for a looooong time) and I opened my email to find....
Thank you, Lord, for blessing me when I do NOT deserve it. Seeing my boy in these valentine jammies makes me smile. And that's just what I needed! (And thanks to Anjali & family for taking these sweet pictures!)
This morning I dropped Lucy off at school and was in the parking lot ready to go to MOPS with Nate when he threw up all over himself before we even got out of the car. So I put the car in reverse and home we are. The car seat cover, jacket, clothes are in the washing machine, Barney is on the television, Nate is snuggled on the couch with water (he will not be having watermelon yogurt for a looooong time) and I opened my email to find....
Thank you, Lord, for blessing me when I do NOT deserve it. Seeing my boy in these valentine jammies makes me smile. And that's just what I needed! (And thanks to Anjali & family for taking these sweet pictures!)
Friday, January 23, 2009
Randomness
Some random things going on:
I have been following the Money Saving Mom blog for a few months now and had a great experience recently. I never thought to shop at Walgreens or CVS (we don't have one yet but our first store is being built just down the road) but thanks to her blog and others like it, I am beating the system!
For example, last week I got diapers, two boxes of toothpaste and deodorant for $10. The diapers alone were $9.99 so the rest was free! This is all from clipping coupons and watching weekly ads! We now have a wealth of toothpaste and deodorant (among other items) in our storage closet and didn't pay a penny for them! And we know that in today's economy, saving money is a huge benefit!
My in-laws were gracious enough to purchase matching beds for Nate & Cole and they arrived yesterday! Cole's bed will be stored since he'll start out in the crib but Nate's is up in their room. It is amazing to go in there now and see two beds for two boys! My mom is making baseball quilts for their beds so I will post pictures when it's all set up. (No pressure, Mom!)
I finally finished all my sewing orders and can now do things for Cole. Today I finished his lovey blanket and am going to start on a pillow for his bed. I am also making Lucy & Nate "Big Sister" & "Big Brother" t-shirts. It sure helps the time go by and we are hoping to receive our NOC soon!
Things with Arbonne are really going great. I started in late September and feel more determined and inspired even now. It has been such a blessing to see other families' benefit from the healthy products as well as earn income to help out in meager times.
Mark has been working a ton of hours (64 a week!) but is hopeful that by March he can at least stay home on Saturdays with us again. It's been rough for all of us but I can happily say we are trusting God and thankful that Mark still has a job and is gaining a lot of experience in the process. Needless to say, Sundays are our favorite day of the week since we all get to be together!
Mark also has started a biblical counseling ministry at our church on Wednesday nights. I'm so thankful to see God use him in this way and to provide solid, biblical truths to those who are in need.
I'm getting antsy for spring and should know better since this is my second St. Louis winter. I am really trying to stay content in our circumstances although I'd love to be wearing short sleeves and to see the sun shine! All in God's timing though!
Meanwhile, I can not express how blessed I feel. My heart, of course, aches for Cole, but I truly feel like the prayers of our friends & family are granting us such peace during this time. I know, we haven't even been waiting that long and haven't had major disappointments yet (I'm sure we will) but for now, I am going to latch on to these truths and thank the Lord!
I have been following the Money Saving Mom blog for a few months now and had a great experience recently. I never thought to shop at Walgreens or CVS (we don't have one yet but our first store is being built just down the road) but thanks to her blog and others like it, I am beating the system!
For example, last week I got diapers, two boxes of toothpaste and deodorant for $10. The diapers alone were $9.99 so the rest was free! This is all from clipping coupons and watching weekly ads! We now have a wealth of toothpaste and deodorant (among other items) in our storage closet and didn't pay a penny for them! And we know that in today's economy, saving money is a huge benefit!
My in-laws were gracious enough to purchase matching beds for Nate & Cole and they arrived yesterday! Cole's bed will be stored since he'll start out in the crib but Nate's is up in their room. It is amazing to go in there now and see two beds for two boys! My mom is making baseball quilts for their beds so I will post pictures when it's all set up. (No pressure, Mom!)
I finally finished all my sewing orders and can now do things for Cole. Today I finished his lovey blanket and am going to start on a pillow for his bed. I am also making Lucy & Nate "Big Sister" & "Big Brother" t-shirts. It sure helps the time go by and we are hoping to receive our NOC soon!
Things with Arbonne are really going great. I started in late September and feel more determined and inspired even now. It has been such a blessing to see other families' benefit from the healthy products as well as earn income to help out in meager times.
Mark has been working a ton of hours (64 a week!) but is hopeful that by March he can at least stay home on Saturdays with us again. It's been rough for all of us but I can happily say we are trusting God and thankful that Mark still has a job and is gaining a lot of experience in the process. Needless to say, Sundays are our favorite day of the week since we all get to be together!
Mark also has started a biblical counseling ministry at our church on Wednesday nights. I'm so thankful to see God use him in this way and to provide solid, biblical truths to those who are in need.
I'm getting antsy for spring and should know better since this is my second St. Louis winter. I am really trying to stay content in our circumstances although I'd love to be wearing short sleeves and to see the sun shine! All in God's timing though!
Meanwhile, I can not express how blessed I feel. My heart, of course, aches for Cole, but I truly feel like the prayers of our friends & family are granting us such peace during this time. I know, we haven't even been waiting that long and haven't had major disappointments yet (I'm sure we will) but for now, I am going to latch on to these truths and thank the Lord!
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
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